Friday, April 18, 2008

Clinical Science Conference

Jeff has been gone since yesterday morning to attend a Clinical Science Conference in Pocatello. This was the first time since we've been married that we were apart overnight. It was strange. The kids and I drove him over to the school where he met the other students for carpooling over. I took a couple fun pictures of the kids in the car.Yesterday wasn't nearly as hard as it could have been, because the kids and I spent the morning and afternoon at Mom's house doing laundry. It made it easier on me to have Marie there to play with Zaylee. I got some fun pictures of them outside.

Mom and Dad have a little pond in their back yard, with a bridge over it. Zaylee likes to stand on the bridge, though of course this is only allowed when she is closely supervised!
They also have a little log swing. Marie was helping Zaylee swing on it, and she really enjoyed it, though sometimes she was a little uncertain!Last night, when we were back home, and I had the kids put to bed, and the laundry put away, and the dishes done, and the living room cleaned up, I started realizing how lonely I really was without Jeff there. You take it for granted when you always have someone there for you. Jeff always helps to put the kids to bed. We hang out during the evening, watch a movie together, eat snacks together that we probably don't need to eat, and just enjoy each others' company. But last night I put the kids to bed by myself. I watched Disney's "Haunted Mansion" and wished Jeff was there to hold me through the scary parts (they weren't really all that scary, but seemed more so because he wasn't there). And I had to eat my pudding and marshmallows and chocolate kisses all by myself (like I said, they're snacks I probably don't need!).

The hardest part was actually going to bed. It was the first time I've slept alone in the whole time we've been married (not counting naps, of course).

Today was pretty uneventful. We got up, had breakfast, and just hung out until this afternoon when we went to pick Jeff up. It was so nice to see him and give him a big hug! We've spent the rest of the day relaxing. We went through all the booty that Jeff brought home (you know these medical-type conferences - they give out all sorts of free stuff). Jeff brought home the traditional pens and notepads, and also a mint dispenser, a screwdriver thing that has a variety of heads, a couple things of hand sanitizer, a small flashlight that turns into a tiny screwdriver (it's awesome - I used it to tighten my glasses!), and other fun stuff. And some candy. Yeah.

Anyway, it's been a fun couple of days.

7 comments:

Rachel Holloway said...

WOW! I can't believe you have made it this long in your marriage without ever being apart! It is a weird feeling, isn't it??

Glad he is back now and you got lots of good loot!

Stephanie said...

We almost had to spend the night apart when we were married six months. I had an ornithology field trip that was supposed to be overnight, but it ended up raining. We couldn't camp like we planned so we came home early. Good thing too, because I was pregnant with Zaylee at the time and would have found the sleeping bag to be terribly uncomfortable.

Sarah said...

I can't believe you've made it this long without being apart overnight either. Wow! I'm glad he made it home and you can enjoy your weekend together now.

Melinda said...

I can never sleep w/o Aaron. I end up watching TV until I doze off, but it's never really sleep. Glad to hear you survived the first awful ordeal!!

Karen said...

It's both wonderful and awful that we can't get along without our snuggly warm companion! Bill was on a campout last night. I had a friend and her kids over to watch a movie and do some sewing. They left about 11:30 PM and I stayed up puttering til about 1 in the morning. Just can't face that empty bed! Then I woke up at 5AM and have been sewing and puttering ever since. I will go hang curtains at my friend's house in about an hour...her husband is the assistant scoutmaster and is also on the campout.

Esther said...

I too was amazed that you have gone that long without being apart. Nathan had to leave me when we had been married 4 months and we've been apart several times since then. It is really hard at first. I can't imagine what this next month will be without him and being pregnant. He does so much to help me.

Michelle said...

I'm sorry, I just had to laugh! I go to bed all the time by myself. When they have an excercise on base Mark generally ends up on mids shift, and is at work all night. I don't know what it is like to have help getting the kids to bed. If he is home, he usually just looks at me helplessly and says "I don't know how to get them to bed!" Kind of sad. But I do enjoy having my sweetie sleeping beside me, and it's hard when he works mids, since I know he will be gone all morning. Swings (3 to midnight) isn't so bad, he at least spends most of the night with me. But when he deployed and I was pregnant with Nathan, that was the worst 3 months ever! I cried the first 2 weeks before I could go to sleep. Although, now that I think about it, even worse was when he left for basic training and I was pregnant and knew he wouldn't be back home for 6 months. But, it sounds like you survived, and luckily you guys shouldn't have to do too many of these. Your late night snack sounded good to me! I was craving sweets last night...