Despite the delay, the day has been pretty nice. The kids were well behaved and cheerful for most of the day. When the laundry was finally done and we left, I noticed that there are a couple flowering trees in Mom and Dad's front yard, and took some pictures. I also got some fun pictures of Zaylee and Jeff playing in the yard, enjoying the beauty of the evening.
I had to take Zaylee to a WIC appointment this afternoon, during which she was sweet and happy and well-behaved. But she made up for it when we went grocery shopping this evening. It was a necessary shopping trip, as we were out of milk and eggs and baby cereal and stuff like that. So, in spite of the fact that it was almost bedtime, we went shopping.
Zaylee did okay at first, but the longer we were there, the harder a time she had. At first it was just a little cantankerousness (is that a word? It didn't set off the spell checker, so I guess it's okay). Then she wouldn't leave the groceries alone, wanting to put them back on the shelves, or put things in the cart that we didn't want, and getting really upset when I put them back where they belonged.
By the time we got to the checkout, she was pulling to get away from me, yelling and crying, and really just throwing a huge fit. Well, huge for her; she doesn't really do huge fits, but it was as big a fit as she's ever thrown in public. We made it out in one piece, but have talked it over and decided that it's about time we stopped making every shopping trip a family affair. We've enjoyed doing our grocery shopping as a family for over three years. But with two kids at the ages that Zaylee and Thomas are, it's getting more difficult to come out with our sanity intact. So, with just a bit of sadness and regret, we decided that for most of our grocery trips, only one of us will go. We'll treat it as an actual errand to run, instead of a family outing.
So, we put Zaylee to bed as soon as we got home. And she was asleep probably within a minute or two of laying down. She was tired! A while later we put Thomas down. He didn't go down as easily, I had to go in and comfort him briefly a couple times before he would calm down enough to fall asleep. I was surprised but very glad that his screams didn't wake up his big sister.
Anyway, it's been a pretty nice day.
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Hard to make that jump, from outing to errand, but probably well worth it at this point. Loved the pics of playing in the yard and spring blossoms!
I do ALL the shopping myself, almost always with the girls. Aaron probably would and could, but it's something I enjoy and can get a little anal about. (We all have our little things...) Sorry Zaylee was such a tough case last night.
Loved your pictures of the blossoms, by the way!
I HARDLY EVERY SHOP WITH KIDS--best thing EVER! I take them once in a while, but usually only one or the other...RARELY, RARELY will I take all of them with me.
I just don't know how people do it. It seems so overwhelming to me to have all these little people to watch while you are trying to make it through your list, etc.
Glad you are figuring out what works for you guys!
I try and get groceries when Mark will be home, since I have only 2 hands and 3 very active little ones. My kids have thrown some doozies, I don't hardly notice the fits anymore, and who cares if people stare. They couldn't handle my kids! :-) I do bring them with me about half the time, becuase of Mark's schedule and mine.... and while we make it through, it's not my favorite way to do it. I think you guys will come to enjoy the little break time, some weeks that's the only break I get. And then it can turn into Parent and Me time, like Mom and Dad did. Rotate who's turn it is and get that child a very small treat. This could be a good thing!
99% of the time, my shopping has to be done with Madison, and frequently includes Kellen. I almost never get to go by myself, but Steve's schedule doesn't allow for anything to change. Recently, Madison won't stay put in the cart (she worms out of the belt no matter how tight I put it) and she won't stay with me if I let her walk. Definitely frustrating! I think it's great that you have the option of leaving kids home while you go shopping; enjoy it!
Shopping is my time. I will go out of my way to not take Emma. It's just too hard to take kids that age. And it's nice for Jon to have some alone time with Emma. Win win situation.
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